embrace imperfection

Let Go of Shame, Take the L.E.A.P.

Kickball was one of my favorite games growing up. I felt powerful propelling the red ball through the air with a swift kick.

There are many things other than rubber balls that we kick down the road. All those “round to it” projects, the ones we tell ourselves we “should” be doing as good humans. These “shoulds” come in all shapes and sizes. It might be files to organize, doing your taxes, learning to play an instrument, or something as simple as writing a note.

For years I told myself I should create fabulous baby books for my children. I don’t know how I came up with the idea that perfect mothers have perfect baby books. What better way to project the perfect image, spotlighting the joy without having to mention the struggles?

There Is No Perfect Way to Navigate a Pandemic

My kitchen transformed from a silent haven into Grand Central Station in the blink of an eye. As I write these words, my husband is on a business call, the dog is barking, and someone has wandered in wondering what is for breakfast.

My first instinct is to respond to the disruptions with a snappy comment and a cold shoulder. I want to banish everyone to their assigned corner of the house. Having people around 24/7 tests my patience in ways I had not anticipated and am a little embarrassed to admit. Holding my tongue takes effort and not wearing my emotions on my sleeve is exhausting.

Are you experiencing the same thing?